“Hey dude, supp (no ordained spelling though)????”, and here comes a quick reply, “Just chilling dude” (with the two hands’ extreme fingers up, hands coming towards each other and a simultaneous nod in affirmation )…….is one of the several conversations and gestures that I came across a few days ago. But this one really captivated me, as it compelled me to realize how desperate we have become to project the influence westernization has had on us; rather it has become a synonym for modernization. What houses in every youth’s mind is one “has” to use such so called “cool” accents to be a “someone” of this entire melodrama. This is not an attempt to offend the people who use such an accent, but just one of my several observations that I would like to share with you. For example, the word f**k has seen widespread usage amongst the new generation, especially the ones in their 20’s and the 30’s. Even I practise to control myself once I have to leave for home, after my end semester exams. It has undoubtedly become a part and parcel of life, which we use almost every minute. Literally, the word projects “disappointment” and the other meaning, you all know better, I don’t need to explain…..lolzzzz…….God, this is another of those, the first time I saw this word was in a message that my friend forwarded to me. When I asked him, he said we use it to express that we are “laughing out loudly”, when the other person can’t see us. If the laugh is too loud, to amplify the effect, we use multiple z.This was an enlightenment for me, rather my entry to the school of western thoughts, where such accents were considered ideal, where the cordial words, “hello, how are you”, had no place!!!!!!
With the advent of social networking sites such as facebook, orkut, twitter etc, it’s for sure that we have been able to revive lost friendships, at the same time; they have seen a major transition from being just a part of life to practically, the heart of life. Even the recent cell phone companies advertise for their technically sound models by highlighting such facilities. Nowadays, it’s very common to see that people do not share their home addresses etc, the first time they meet, but rather engage themselves in ensuring the profile names of each other on such networking sites. Rather, an account on such sites has become a status symbol, thanks to us Indians, who account for the second largest internet users in the world only after China. An insight into such sites enlightens you further, where there is hardly any privacy, where people can easily be fooled by fake appearances, rather I have heard of cases where a person on facebook shared all his details with his “online friend” only to find himself abducted one day.
The eateries on the other hand, like McDonalds, Dominos, KFC have proved to be a boon for the well to do. But have we done our bit before letting them occupy an integral position in our daily lives. Whatever, for us, taste is everything and this f**king stomach can make us do anything. Let’s divert ourselves a bit, let’s concentrate on the cell phone part; how ecstatic we become on seeing “sexy” cell phones put on display in a mobile store and start fantasizing to be the owner of one of those, but do we realize how badly this has affected us, how detrimental it has proved to be, in establishing the world a global village on one hand, but ravaging the mentality of the younger generation on the other; by being the best way to help involve oneself in crimes: mms’s, porn, to name a few.
The choice for western music amongst Indians also caught my attention recently, when I felt embarrassed upon being questioned about of the singer of an English song, my friend was listening to, but my question is, why the hell I should know about that singer. If I don’t listen to English songs, does it mean I am not on the road to prosperity and development? I know I am being vulgar in my words, but I’m helpless. Why should I feel ashamed to admit that I listen to Hindi songs and Sonu Nigam is my favorite singer, and not a freaky foreigner .Yet again, I don’t mean to hurt the sentiments of those who enjoy western music, but what I stand for is, let’s not make this thirst for adopting westernization a mandatory requirement to prove one’s abilities or genius.
Another change that has vandalized the Indian society is the increased cases of love affairs……oh my god…this is a sensitive topic I have crept into………still, it’s not meant to offend my Romeos and Juliets who come across this article……by the way, any girl single here..?????? I’m available…..lollzzzz…..anyways, today, almost every second boy/girl has a relationship before he/she is married. It would be great if the past lovers tie the knot, but if it isn’t the case, I have witnessed how it has ruined several lives even after marriage. Attraction is something, as I feel, is unstoppable at this age. But one must try to differentiate between love and infatuation. The increased number of premarital sex cases, live-in relationships etc. all are pointing towards the derailment of our cultural train, which our forefathers have been piloting since ages and when it was our opportunity to take the driving seat, we couldn’t prove ourselves to be eligible enough. I don’t mean to stop this ,neither am I against this institution of love affairs, but my call to everyone is that there is absolutely nothing bad in loving someone, sharing your loveliest feelings with someone whom you feel closest to, but it could be done in a more dignified manner and not illicitly. I don’t expect that we should stick to what we have been doing in India since ages to protect our culture, but let’s try to merge with the west only up to a reasonable limit and not stoop before their so called “culture” to prove ourselves “servile”.
A lot can be “said”, a lot more can be “written”, but what matters is how things are “done”, how far we need to go ahead to protect our Indian culture from oblivion’s curse.